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Published : March 13, 2007 |
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Here are the top 5 biggest mistakes men make with women:
1. Trying to impress a woman. You are not at a job interview so stop
offering your resume. Don’t say how much money you make, don’t say you
drive a BMW, and don’t be a suck-up. And don’t buy her expensive gifts
before you are engaged! Doing these things bores a woman to death
because so many men do it. To be successful with women, do the exact
opposite. You have to act like YOU are the boss and she is the one on
the job interview, and if she makes a mistake, she is history. You need
to be the one in control. You must see yourself as the world’s best
catch and for a woman to get you, it is like she is winning the
lottery. Women love the chase and they want what they cannot have. When
you offer yourself to a woman like a sacrificial lamb, she instantly
loses interest. But when you act confident and aloof like you are the
CEO of a major company or a famous movie star, all of a sudden you
become the man of her dreams.
2. Acting too nice. When you act super nice around a woman, she knows
you are doing it to impress her and that your behavior is most likely
not the real you. She knows you are sucking up to her. Stop it! Be
yourself. Joke around. Tease her like she is your bratty little sister.
Act like a man. Remember, you are the catch and she needs to chase and
impress you.
3. Acting shy or timid. Nothing kills a woman’s interest more than a
man who behaves like a scared little boy. Be a man. Be bold. You have
to be the one in control. Do you think Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise behave
shy or timid around women? Or course not. You need to act the same way.
Act as if you do not care if a woman likes you or not. Better yet,
assume every woman sees you as Brad Pitt and wants you. As many women
have told me, it is NOT a man’s appearance that attracts them. It was
the man’s attitude and confidence. That is why women love bad boys. Bad
boys are very bold and confident and they just assume women want them.
By acting that way, women do want them.
4. Treating her like she is a goddess and better than you. Remember,
women want to chase the man. When you treat a woman like she is a
goddess that is out of your league, she loses interest in you. She
wants a man who is so confident that he knows she would be lucky to be
with him. I hope you are starting to see that that game of love is all
about attitude – NOT looks or money. It is about being confident about
yourself and knowing that women would be lucky to have you as your
boyfriend.
5. Agreeing with everything a woman says because you want her to like
you. Stop it! Women want a man who has the confidence to stand up for
his ideas. A woman will not respect you if you agree with everything
she says and does. Actually, women like to say things just to test a
man to see what his response is. They want you to disagree with them
sometimes. They want you to act like a man and stand up for your ideas
and beliefs.
In summary, to be successful with woman, you have to stop acting like a
scared little boy and start acting like a real man who is confident and
who deserves respect. If you do not feel that way now, start faking it
and in time, you will naturally feel that way.
Martin Chase is a retired NFL player who now owns a popular sportsfan.com/" target="_blank">sports memorabilia website as well as a dating tips website. |
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